
{"id":1330,"date":"2016-05-29T08:00:45","date_gmt":"2016-05-29T08:00:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mccreerys.blogs.eprevue.net\/?p=1330"},"modified":"2019-05-08T07:15:54","modified_gmt":"2019-05-08T07:15:54","slug":"party-etiquette-proper-hosting-and-dining-protocol","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mccreerys.com\/blog\/2016\/05\/29\/party-etiquette-proper-hosting-and-dining-protocol\/","title":{"rendered":"Party Etiquette, Proper Hosting, and Dining Protocol"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_1331\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" ><a href=\"http:\/\/mccreerys.blogs.eprevue.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/23\/2016\/05\/BLOG-10.-ffdm-highlands.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-1331\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1331\" src=\"http:\/\/mccreerys.blogs.eprevue.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/23\/2016\/05\/BLOG-10.-ffdm-highlands-1024x767.jpg\" alt=\"FFDM's Highlands Collection features these lovely hardwood set for your dining room. 'Spills on wood? Be sure to wipe them off right away as water is wood's leading enemy.\" width=\"1024\" height=\"767\" \/><\/a><p class=\"wp-caption-text\">FFDM&#8217;s Highlands Collection features these lovely hardwood set for your dining room. &#8216;Spills on wood? Be sure to wipe them off right away as water is wood&#8217;s leading enemy.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Modern party etiquette is a tricky thing to remember for both the guests and the host. There are many do\u2019s and don\u2019ts to keep in mind from the way you position the spoons, forks and knives; to the way the invites are sent out. Do you think you can survive a posh party?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Invitations and Responses <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you are inviting people over for some party, be sure that the invites are written courteously. Whether you are using paper or digital invitations, you must make sure that you are always courteous.<\/p>\n<p>Specify the level of formality that will be practiced during the party. You also need to include the information on the place, time and duration of the said party. As much as you can, include a GPS-friendly address.<\/p>\n<p>If you are a guest, you should know how to RSVP. Do this as soon as you can. Should your plans change in the future, you should let the host know why you won\u2019t be able to attend. It is improper to just not show up when the host is actually expecting you.<\/p>\n<p>Even when you have a casual invitation, make it a point to confirm your attendance or to decline it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Never Arrive Early <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>While you are encouraged to arrive on time, it is not a good practice to arrive hours early. You can arrive 15 minutes early but no more than that. The hosts who feel frantic because of the preparations would surely appreciate it if you don\u2019t arrive during the last minute cooking and cleaning up.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bring Gifts<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>While you are encouraged to bring gifts or any token of your appreciation for being invited, make sure that your present won\u2019t require more work from your host. The best party presents include scented candles, a nice-smelling soap, tea towels, and a bottle of wine.<\/p>\n<p>Even better than bringing wine or any other kind of present, you can ask your host if he or she would need some extra hand.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Offer More Choices <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>As a host, you should give alternatives to alcohol. Remember that not everyone likes to drink alcohol so even if you are the best in bartending, you must offer non-alcoholic choices as there are people who prefer soda or juice.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_1332\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" ><a href=\"http:\/\/mccreerys.blogs.eprevue.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/23\/2016\/05\/BLOG-10.-1586-75907-GRY1-Soiree-Sideboard.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-1332\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1332\" src=\"http:\/\/mccreerys.blogs.eprevue.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/23\/2016\/05\/BLOG-10.-1586-75907-GRY1-Soiree-Sideboard.jpg\" alt=\"What could better house your cutlery sets than the 1586-75907-GRY1 Soiree Sideboard? \" width=\"521\" height=\"400\" \/><\/a><p class=\"wp-caption-text\">What could better house your cutlery sets than the 1586-75907-GRY1 Soiree Sideboard?<\/p><\/div>\n<p><strong>Create Seat Assignments <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It is not a big deal to create a seating assignment in smaller gatherings. Be sure to double your efforts when creating seating assignments for a larger gathering. Do not split up couples but do sit the quieter people next to the more talkative ones.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Never Use Your Phone <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Casual parties may be more forgiving when it comes to using your phone. It is an unspoken rule, though, that you shouldn\u2019t even peek at your cell phone during any kind of party. So whether you are attending a formal or informal gathering, make sure that you keep the ringer off.<\/p>\n<p>And during dinner? Oh, don\u2019t even think about it!<\/p>\n<p><strong>The Necessary Bowl <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Remember that no one would want to wonder where they could put the shrimp tail or olive pit. This is an awkward thing to wonder about during formal (or even informal) gatherings. So spare your guests this awkward scenario.<\/p>\n<p>Provide a bowl especially for this purpose.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Clean Up the Bathroom<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Your bathroom is going to be one busy room during the party so make sure that it is well-stocked with toilet paper, hand soap, and paper towels. Have some scented candles on the ready, too. And, oh, while you\u2019re at it, have a new plunger placed in there, too.<\/p>\n<p>The cleanup shouldn\u2019t just happen inside the bathroom, though. Prepare to wipe off spills on the table runner or on the table cloth itself. If you\u2019re the guest and you\u2019ve spilt something that won\u2019t come off anymore, then be prepared to replace or pay for the damage.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_1333\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" ><a href=\"http:\/\/mccreerys.blogs.eprevue.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/23\/2016\/05\/BLOG-10.-Hooker-Furniture-Living-Room-Melange-Celeste-Display-Cabinet.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-1333\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1333\" src=\"http:\/\/mccreerys.blogs.eprevue.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/23\/2016\/05\/BLOG-10.-Hooker-Furniture-Living-Room-Melange-Celeste-Display-Cabinet-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"Hooker Furniture Living Room Melange Celeste Display Cabinet will give your guests something awesome to look at. \" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" \/><\/a><p class=\"wp-caption-text\">Hooker Furniture Living Room Melange Celeste Display Cabinet will give your guests something awesome to look at.<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Modern party etiquette is a tricky thing to remember for both the guests and the host. There are many do\u2019s and don\u2019ts to keep in mind from the way you position the spoons, forks and knives; to the way the invites are sent out. Do you think you can survive a posh party? 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